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Domestic Violence Comes in Many Forms |
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Did you know there are multiple forms of domestic violence? Though physical abuse is a major form of domestic violence (and the one we hear about most often), there are other types of abuse that typically proceed the physical, including: financial, emotional/psychological/verbal, sexual and spiritual.
We encounter women on a weekly basis who are questioning if they are experiencing abuse. They often make the statement, “Well I am not really sure if it is abuse.” However, as they go on to explain their situation it becomes very obvious that they are in an abusive relationship.
Being aware of the different forms of domestic violence and understanding the definition can help you spot the signs of abuse quickly and could potentially allow you to be a resource to a friend or family member who is experiencing abuse.
Domestic violence refers to a pattern of violence and coercive behavior in an intimate partner relationship. It may consist of repeated, physical assault or threats and manipulation. The primary goal of an abuser is to gain power and control. In spite of its prevalence, blatant impunity for violence against women still exists — too often rooted in a misinterpretation of biblical texts and a patriarchal view of relationships that emphasizes control instead of cooperation and mutuality. We see these ideologies portrayed throughout society, in movies, television shows, song lyrics, and even in our treatment of each other.
To learn more about the different types and signs of domestic violence you can visit our website www.thesheepfold.org. You can also take our “Early Warning Signs” quiz. This is a great tool to educate you on the questions to ask and the answers to be cautious of. Be informed, beware — let’s stop domestic violence.
- Kelly Ibbitson, Director of Operations
Be gracious to me, O Lord, for I am in distress... I have become like a broken vessel... But I trust in you, O Lord; I say, 'You are my God.'
- Psalm 31:9-14
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